Never assume you know better than the woman herself and never say a woman is NOT in labour.
Never judge a women's pain - it IS what she says it is and NEVER give pharmacological analgesia without confirming her 'mild pains' aren't in fact advanced labour.
- We have moved away from doing vaginal examination routinely [quite rightly] BUT there are times when it is the only way to determine what stage her labour has progressed to.
- As labour can be unpredictable and individual speed of progress is a norm, there can be an assumption that a woman is in early labour with mild contrations until you are surprised by advancing head. Women do not appreciate this.
- In our efforts to keep birth normal we must avoid the temptation to convince ourselves this is early labour, early labour, early labour, mild contractions etc untill Oh there 's a head. Woman do NOT appreciate this.