Preparation for birth
Effective preparation - physical, emotional and intellectual - can have a huge impact on birth outcomes. It can significantly increasing the likelihood of a normal birth and a healthy baby, and it can greatly enhance the satisfaction of the mother. Good preparation helps to prepare for the unexpected and can thus enable a woman to adjust herself and her expectations if circumstances change.
Discuss with her the best preparation methods for achieveing her desierd outcomes. For instance, a woman who chooses a squatting birth will need to be aware of the physical demands this might make, and ‘get in training’ by practising being in that sort of position – perhaps while she is watching her favourite soap on TV, sitting on a couple of large telephone directories, or a small footstool if she has one.
By working with her to help her prepare, the foundations for her confidence and empowerment are laid and it becomes possible to see a normal labour and birth as something achievable.
Tips and tricks
- Find out what she expects from her labour - ask her on your first visit what her previous experience has been and what she is expecting this time. What was her own mothers’ experience of birth like? Has she ever been with or seen a friend, sister or other in labour?
- Explore her ways of coping – get her to think about her ways of handling fear, pain and anxiety. Prepare her for the possibility that her feelings may become overwhelming during transition, and help her to develop some techniques for dealing with this.
- Encourage her to exercise her body and mind appropriately - her physical and mental flexibility, stamina and relaxation will have a huge bearing on the likelihood of her giving birth normally.
Further reading
Balaskas J (1983) Active Birth Unwin Paperbacks, London
Dick-Read G (1984) Childbirth without fear Harper & Row, UK
Gould D (2000) Normal labour: a concept analysis Journal of Advanced Nursing 31 (2): 418-427
Muller-Staffelstein T (1996) Preparation for childbirth - preparation for life: a challenge for primary prevention. International Journal of Prenatal and Perinatal Psychology and Medicine 8: 73-79 September supplement